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RE: Kol Isha
- From: Katie Marcus <kmarcus...>
- Subject: RE: Kol Isha
- Date: Thu 22 Feb 2001 14.28 (GMT)
Hey Shirona, don't knock Tzniut. Some of us cover our hair to take pride
in a rite of passage that Jewish women have throughout the ages.
I admit, I don't wear the full tichel (mostly because I can't figure out
how to make one) :), but I do wear a hat, and I see this as a very very
feminist thing to do. Men get kippot, tallis, tefillin, all these garments
that can proclaim their ethnicity to the world- how come women can't do the
same?
-----Original Message-----
From: shirona [SMTP:shirona (at) bellatlantic(dot)net]
Sent: Wednesday, February 21, 2001 12:49 PM
To: World music from a Jewish slant
Subject: Re: Kol Isha
Dear Winston,
OK - I will answer your question - whether I will attend an all-woman event
where men were excluded.
If I were living in a Female Dominant society, where for the past few
thousand years the reality was as follows -
*Men were bought and sold for money
*Men had no political, economical of social rights
*Men had to share a household with other men, married to one woman
*Men had to do all the menial jobs
*Men had to "obey" their wives
*Men had to walk three steps behind their wives
*Men were made to bare responsibility for women's weaknesses - "shave your
hair off - your hair is a turn-on! Don't sing, your singing is a turn-on!"
and so on...
If I were living in such a society, knowing my moral core as it is now - I
would be too SICK to attend such an event.
I hope I answered your question.
Shirona
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----- Original Message -----
From: "WINSTON WEILHEIMER" <nusach (at) hotmail(dot)com>
To: "World music from a Jewish slant" <jewish-music (at) shamash(dot)org>
Sent: Tuesday, February 20, 2001 9:38 PM
Subject: Re: Kol Isha
> shirona wrote:
> > >
> > > We need to get to the root of this "pathology". Why are we wasting
so
=
> > > much time and energy on minutiae? How much longer can this dialogue
=
> > > continue poking around the surface? It's like trying to heal Cancer
=
> > > with band-aids. If we don't understand why this problem is so tough
to
> >=
> > > resolve, - we will never heal. It will never just "go away".
> > >
> > > I asked this question before - but no one answered me yet. (except
for
a
> >=
> > > "diss" from Eric...)=20
> > >
> > > There are only TWO sexes in this world, to the best of my knowledge.
=
> > > Is it OK that one sex has the power to make all the rules that bind
both
> >=
> > > sexes, and that the other sex has no say in that process. For me it
is
> >=
> > > that simple, and the answer is either yes or no. If this is not the
core
> >=
> > > issue - then what is?
> > >
> > >
> ************************************************************
> Shirona, first, you know where i stand on the issue....and being one that
> demanded a yes or no answer, I do have to say that on this question it is
> not quite that simple. I think that one must look at the issue from two
> different worlds, one inside the orthodox community and the other from
> without. As I posted earlier, if you are willing to attend functions
within
> the orthodox community, you do have to have a respect for their feelings.
I
> don't think you would try to sit with the men at an orthodox minyan. You
> could try to make the point, but why do so? However the issue of kol
issa
> when it comes to public appearances for a concert or non religious event,
or
> even on cd's or my radio show i think it is a different matter. What
care
> you if an orthodox man refuses to come to hear you (except perhaps loss
of
> revenue and his chance to hear your beautiful voice...i am a fan!). that
is
> his loss after all. Yes Kol Isha issue is anti woman...(like how the
> orthodox always turn it around to say it is really to protect the
> men?...they do this with a lot of other things as well), but really
within
> their own community they have the right to live in the 18th century if
they
> want, and if they can convince their women to accept it, that is also
their
> perogotive....our task is to be true to ourselves and to do what we think
is
> right. Just as we demand that the orthodox do not impose on us the way
they
> THINK we should live and act, we can not impose on them how we think they
> should either.
>
>
> btw...you never answered my yes or no...would you refuse to attend an all
> woman event that did not allow men?
>
> winston
>
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